1. Start Shopping Sooner Than You Think

Most special-order wedding gowns take 6–8 months to arrive, not including time for alterations. So if you're planning a wedding in the next year, now is the time to book your bridal appointment. Your dream dress is out there—you just need to give it time to arrive.

2. Bring Your Inner Circle, Not the Whole Crew

Too many opinions can cloud your judgment and take the joy out of finding your dress. We recommend bringing just 1–3 of your most trusted people—the ones who know your vision and will cheer you on with genuine excitement.

3. Come with an Open Mind

You might have pinned 100 dresses that all look alike—but sometimes the dress you least expect will be the one you can’t stop smiling in. Be open to trying new styles, even ones outside your comfort zone. Your stylist is there to guide you toward what feels like you.

4. Set a Budget—and Share It

Be honest with yourself (and your stylist) about what you're comfortable spending. At White Wisteria, we carry a curated collection of designer gowns at a variety of price points, and we’ll always be transparent so you can fall in love without the financial stress.

5. Undergarments & Hair Matter (a Little!)

You don’t need full glam, but wearing seamless underwear and doing a little hair/makeup can help you visualize the full bridal look. You want to feel your best in the mirror when you find the one!
Pro Tip: You typically don’t need a bra when trying on wedding dresses. However, wear whatever makes you feel comfortable! If you do choose to wear one, opt for a strapless nude bra or a sticky bra/pasties!.

6. Be Honest About What You Like (and Don’t Like)

It’s okay to say no! The more feedback you give your stylist, the more tailored your appointment will be. We want to hear what you love and what’s not working so we can guide you to the perfect gown faster.

7. This Is Your Moment—Own It!

Whether you say yes to the first dress or the fifth, your opinion is the only one that matters. Celebrate every moment, every try-on, every laugh. You’ve waited a long time for this—and you deserve to feel completely confident and beautiful when you say “yes.”